I often find myself wondering if other people are like me, if they think like me. I wonder if there are other people who wish they could change a certain quality about themselves.
I know there are many people that say they would not change one single thing about themselves because it makes them who they are or something along those lines. I understand what they are saying and to an extent, I agree. But there is one thing that I wish I could change about me.
When something negative happens it always ruins my whole day. 1,000 positive things could happen to me in one day but if one bad thing happens or goes wrong, it ruins my whole day. People will say just focus on the positive. Well to me, that is easier said than done. All I ever seem to think about is the negative things.
The weird thing is that I know I am blessed in so many ways. I have many things to be grateful for. I am a grateful person. And I know my life can be way worse than it really is. I also am aware that there are many people out there with issues way larger than mine.
But when one thing goes wrong in my life, I get so stressed and depressed by just focusing in on the negative and not acknowledging and appreciating all the positive things in my life.
That is the one quality of my personality I wish I could change.